GAMBAR SEKADAR HIASAN.
Bini kedua ni selalunya perampas. So aku nak cerita dulu macam mana aku boleh dapat title ‘isteri kedua’.
Umur aku masuk 25 tahun. So korang nak tahu macam mana aku dapat title ni?
Suami aku kena tangk4p basah dengan madu aku iaitu kawan kerja dia sedangkan kitaorang dh bertunang dan tinggal lagi 3 minggu nak nikah.
Ya 3 minggu lagi gais. What a sad life.
Aku dapat berita ni sebabkan aku dengan suami aku dan madu aku (kawan kerja dia kan) kerja satu company yang sama.
Cuma beza aku kerja dalam office. Dia dan madu aku banyak travel dan diaorang 1 team.
Masa malam dia kena tangk4p basah tu aku memang tak tahu lah kan cuma aku ada rasa tak sedap hati bila dia tak call atau msj aku 1 hari.
Esoknya aku masuk office petang sebab aku halfday.
Bila aku masuk je semua orang dekat deptartment aku pandang aku dengan pandangan aku tak dapat tafsir.
Aku mula ingt aku ada buat salah. Tapi tetiba dapat call dr manager HR suruh jumpa dia.
Dari situ la aku tahu suami aku dah bernikah dengan madu aku. Aku ? Jantung aku gvgur waktu tu.
Tapi yang aku tahu air mata aku sikit pun tak jatuh gais. Cuma aku rasa remuk hati aku.
Rasa skit yang mana air mata pun tak mampu nak keluar. Oh ya masa kena t4ngkap basah tu diaorang tengah outstation la.
Macam mana boleh jadi macam ni ? Aku rasa aku yang terlalu baik hati. Hahahaha. Hurmm.
Baik hati macam mana ??? Aku dah lama tahu madu aku suka dekat suami aku.
Sebab aku perempuan. Kita perempuan ni sense dia lain sikit kan. Boleh t4ngkap dengan cepat.
Tapi aku baik hati. Aku cuma cakap dengan suami aku. Hati2 jelah dengan madu aku tu.
Jangan sampai tersuka bila dh kerja sama2 tu. Tapi tak sangka la tngkap cintan jugak diaorang berdua ni.
Aku tahu suami aku dulu suka tumpang kereta madu aku sebab suami aku pakai motor pergi kerja tapi kalau pergi luar negeri.
Suami aku banyak tumpang kereta kawan2 team dia. Jadi madu aku salah sorangnya lah.
Pernah jugak sekali madu aku jemput suami aku bawak pergi balik kerja around 1 bulan kot sebab suami aku punya motor rosak.
Aku dengan rasa baik hatinyaaaaaa(sekarang baru rasa kebongokkan dia) okay je bila madu aku buat macam tu.
Katanya suami aku. Madu aku je yang sanggup nak jemput hantar dia. Aku ada fikir lain tapi aku tepis perasaan tu sebab aku rasa tu je jalan yang ada.
Yelah aku pun tak nak fikir panjang sangat sebab nanti boleh bawak g4duh pulak dengan suami.
Aku tak nak cerita panjang sangat pasal ni. Tapi inilah jugak antara salah 1 sebabnya diaorang boleh bercinta belakang aku.
So next apa yang berlaku lepas diaorang nikah tu. Mak ayah aku nak batalkan semua majlis dan keluarga pihak laki pun redha kalau aku nak batalkan.
Tapi aku ? Baik hati lagiiiiiiiii(geram dengan diri sendiri) sebab nak jaga dua2 belah pihak punya muka.
Aku mintak teruskannnnnnn. Yes gais. Aku teruskan. Bongok sangat aku rasa. Aku tak tahu la kenapa aku boleh bertindak macam ni.
Cuma waktu tu aku banyak mengalah. Mungkin sebab aku tak dapat fikir panjang dah.
Aku tak nak semua malu. Aku tak nak menyusahkan siapa siapa.
Jadi aku tetap teruskan pernikahan aku dengan suami aku. Yupp tahun lepas bulan 1 aku sah jadi isteri kedua suami aku.
Macam tu lah aku dapat title isteri kedua. Setelah 7 tahun bercinta 8 bulan bertunang. Akhirnya aku jadi isteri kedua. Pathetic thing happen in my life.
Aku sebenarnya dah tawar hati dengan suami waktu akad nikah. Aku rasa kosong.
Bukan ini yang aku nak. Aku betul2 tak dapat terima kenyataan aku kena hadapi benda ni. Tapi aku buat fake. Aku buat lagak aku yang aku OK.
Tapi sedangkan semuanya tak ok. Malam lepas majlis. Aku terus buat beberapa perjanjian dengan suami.
Orang kata kalau ada 2 isteri ni. Kena adil kan? Tapi aku kategori baik hati + tawar hati aku cakap aku nak dia duduk dengan aku 1 hari je dalam sebulan.
Hari apa yang dia nak duduk tu ikut lah dia nak bila. Tapi selebihnya memang aku tak kasi dia masuk rumah.
Kami dah ada rumah sewa gais dan nasib baik rumah atas nama aku dan kunci semua aku pegang.
So dia memang tak boleh buat apa. Nafkah tu ikut mana yang dia mampu.
Aku pun tak kisah sangat sebab aku ada saving aku sendiri dan aku ada pendapatan tetap. Dan ada lain2.
Malam dia dengar perjanjian aku tu. Dia nangis teruk. Dia mintak maaf sujud dekat kaki aku.
Aku tak nangis pun. Aku pandang dia macam tin kosong je. Lalu sepi je dekat telinga aku dengar dia teresak2.
Dan malam tu jugak aku sanggup tidur dalam bilik air gais. Sebab tak nak dia sentuh aku. Aku tahu aku dah jadi isteri yang derhaka masa first nikah.
Tapi aku boleh buat apa. Aku pun manusia biasa. Yang sedang terluka hati dan perasaan.
Setahun lebih dah aku dengan suami aku macam ni. Kami memang macam orang asing. 1 hari yang dia duduk dekat aku tu hanya cukup syarat je.
Aku balik kerja dia tak balik lagi. Aku akan tidur bilik no 2 dengan kunci pintu. Aku tetap masak dan basuhkan baju dia.
Esoknya dia akan balik dekat madu aku. Aku sekarang lagi banyak berdikari. Semua aku uruskan sendiri. Suami pun bagi nafkah.
Aku simpan je duit tu. Sebab aku tahu madu dengan suami aku lagi memerlukan duit lagi2 madu dah nak hampir dengan due date.
So inc4se diaorang tak ckup duit. Aku boleh pulangkan balik duit suami aku tu. (Baik hati lagi kan aku ni ?) Penerimaan keluarga.
Masa mula2 dulu. Mak ayah aku dengan adk beradk aku memang langsung tk nak pandang muka suami aku. Apatah lagi nak berborak.
Dan raya tahun lepas n tahun ni aku raya dengan family je tanpa suami. Aku kan isteri kedua.
Korang faham jelah. Hahahaha. Apa boleh buat. Dah nasib.
Side mentua aku dengan ipar aku. Alhamdulillah diaorang semua syang aku. Mungkin sebab serba salah anak dan abang diaorang buat aku.
Tapi aku banyak kali cakap. Benda dah lepas jangan diungkit. Mak mentua aku manjang n4ngis je kalau jumpa aku.
Pelvk aku. Civm aku.
Aku tahu hati kecil mak mentua aku masih lagi rasa bersalah. Tapi aku nak diaorang redha je.
Biar aku je rasa macam ni. Masa first2 aku tengok family in law aku layan madu aku agk tervk.
Tapi aku pujuk diaorang jangan buat macam tu sebab dia manusia jugak. Aku ??
Dari first sampai hari ni aku tak pernah bercakap pun dengan madu aku. Hahahahaahahahah.
Balik kampung suami pun. Aku akan tidur hotel dengan adk ipar perempuan aku.
Mungkin sebab adik ipar aku sama baya dengan aku. Jadi aku selesa dengan dia. Thank you Ima for understanding me. Hehehe.
And actually ayah aku ada cakap dengan suami aku. Kalau rasa tak mampu jaga dua isteri. Pulangkan balik anak dia.
Suami aku terkedu sebab aku tak pernah pun nak mintak dilepaskan atau fasakh. Bagi aku biar dia sendiri tentukan. Hak berpis4h kan hak lelaki. Huhuhuhu.
Aku ada jugak tunggu kata2 tu dr dia. Tapi tak ada pun so aku pun buat donno jelah.
Cuma bila bapak aku ada cakap macam tu dia ada tanya aku. Apa pilihan aku.
Aku cakap terus terang pada dia. Aku pun tak rasa hubungan ni kekal sampai bila2. Jadi aku serahkan kata2 tu dekat dia.
Dia nampak faham tapi tak tahu la kan. Dia faham ke idok. Secara jujurnya. Aku pun tak ada rasa syang dengan dia.
Hubungan kami atas nama suami/isteri je. Tapi bagi dia. Aku tak tahu la kan.
Aku sekarang masih lagi boleh bernafas sampai hari ni. Alhamdulillah. Allah bagi ujian ni pasti ada hikmahnya.
Walaupun ramai kata aku tak nampak ada suami tapi aku tetap jugak mintak kebenaran kalau nak keluar ke apa.
Hubungan aku dengan madu memang tak pernah baik.
Madu pernah bercakap dengan aku tapi buat macam angin lalu. Aku tak jah4t gais. Cuma aku tak rasa nak berbaik lagi.
Hati aku ni masih lagi berbekas. Mungkin sampai bila2 pun takkan pulih.
Hubungan dengan suami pun macam dengan madu. Cakap benda yang perlu je.
Tak ada mesra macam orang lain. Masing2 banyak senyap kalau balik rumah mentua/kg dia.
Dia ada jugak banyak kali tarik perhatian aku. Tapi macam aku cakap kan .
Aku rasa betul2 kosong. Apa je dia cuba buat tu semua aku pandang nothing. Empty.
Aku banyak dengan kehidupan aku sendiri je. Sikit pun aku tk sentuh kehidupan suami dan madu aku. So akhirnya.
Aku jadi macam ni lah. Seorang isteri kedua yang sedang bangun sikit sikit untuk jadikan diri ni kuat.
And korang boleh tak tolong doakan supaya hati aku terus kuat untuk berjalan kehadapan tanpa j4tuh ? Macehhhh if you do that.
Aku harap ada pengakhiran yang adil untuk aku. Huhu. Untuk perempuan diluar sana.
Mungkin hari ni hari korang buat macam tu pada orang macam aku tapi dunia sentiasa berpusing girlssss. Watch outttt.
Untuk yang seiring dengan jalan cerita aku. Jom lah kita sama2 naik menghadapi dug4an ni.
Mungkin kesilapan kita yang lalu buatkan Allah jadikan ujian ni sebagai peringatan. Siapa tahu ?
Moga semuanya baik baik sahaja. Moga Allah sentiasa jaga kita. Aminn.
Untuk lelaki diluar sana. Aku tak tahu nak cakap macam mana. Tapi jangan se-ksa perempuan macam bin-atang. Kalau kau yakin kau nak.
Kau buat betul2. Kalau tak nak tak payah. Kan senang ? Jangan nak tunjuk handal sangat.
P/S: Hikmah poligami amat murni kerana ia sepatutnya mendekatkan lagi hubungan, sekali gus mengukuhkannya dan bukan menjarakkan hubungan kekeluargaan.
Jadi dalam proses membina keluarga yang lebih besar ini saya berpandangan suami perlu mendapatkan persetujuan isteri pertama.
Ini kerana hanya dengan cara itu matlamat poligami yang dianjurkan Islam dapat dicapai.
Bahkan, ia amat penting dalam memupuk persefahaman dan mengurangkan k0nflik di antara pasangan,”
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